Your Boyfriend is definately cheating if the following signs are present

Dear ladies

The worst thing you can do to your relationship is to accuse your boyfriend of cheating when he is infact not cheating. This will only upset him because he will feel that you don't trust him at all, and he will start not trusting you as well. It is however normal for ladies to feel neglected because they like being loved. Before you can even try to accuse him of cheating, look for the following signs first:

• He is unavailable at times when he normally should be
• He stops asking for your opinion and advice
• Makes plans without consulting you
• Spends less time with you
• Goes out with the 'boys' more than he used to
• Does not want you to use his cell phone
• Deletes history of calls on his cell phone
• Changes the way he dresses
• Starts asking about how faithful you are
• The phone rings and he does not answer it

So the above signs are all present, what now? Please do not confront him, you are only making things worse because you cannot prove that a person is cheating based on your personal emotions. Look for valid proof that you can use against him, do not make it too obvious that you are suspicious because he will get alerted and start changing his ways and cover his tricks. Do not steal numbers from his phone and start phoning people, he will be angry and the relationship may go beyond repairs. Remember, guys consider cheating as "cool", everyman is ok with cheating, so you will need to be clever to catch him. The most important and useful source to catch him is his cellphone, all the information is there, but just how you get hold of it is a different story alltogether.

Chilling with Sibo, till next time..........